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An
Interview with Kru Noi
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Please
give us a brief history
Ban Kru Noi was established
for the purpose of helping less privileged children such
as the poor, handicapped, or children who have been abandoned.
This year marks our 23rd year of community service. I was
born in a poor family and have struggled to overcome my
childhood problems. This understanding has shaped my life
and given me determination to help other children.
Tell
us about obstacles or difficulties you are encountering
From the start, we
only had a small house and all children had to live beneath
the raised house. This was in an area filled with farming
water since we were in the fruit growing area of Bangkok.
I received 20 Baht a day from my husband to pay for all
costs. I myself had no income because I was paralyzed after
an operation.
Location and expenses were the most serious problems we
had at that time. Ten years later, our story went public
and we received assistance from many sources. Our home is
now much improved but costs have skyrocketed. Not only do
we feed the children, we also educate them. The only source
of funds is from donations. Expenses outrun income, so we
have no choice but to get more and more loans to cover all
costs in order to keep the operation going.
Less serious problems involve roads and community. Since
there is no main road to where we live, people who come
to visit and help us have to park their cars in front of
other people's houses and walk here. Some new residents
in this community, once occupied only by the poor, are not
happy about the inconvenience such as the noise from children
playing and talking.
Not all of the children live with us. They come here in
the morning and in the evening they return home or go to
flats that we provide. Therefore, traveling within the community
is necessary.
How
many children stay with you?
We now have 123 children
and have sponsored over 800 since the beginning. Many are
now working.
For the first nine years of operation, no children were
allowed to go to school because of the lack of documentation.
For seven years until 1991, our effort to put these children
in school finally paid off. However, not everyone has succeeded.
Some of them have received a diploma while many others can
study as far as grade 9. Vocational schools are alternatives
to high schools and community colleges are an option, such
as the Rajaphat Institutes.
What
is the cost of education?
All costs are paid
for by donations from people who know about my work.
Can
you tell us about your staff?
Some are children we
have helped in the past, although they are not obligated
to work with us. It's difficult because we do not offer
high enough pay. However, some of them have problems working
outside so we arrange for them to help us on day-to-day
chores. Others work as teachers. We focus on career building
such as crafts. The administration takes care of food and
housing arrangements. Four of our staff members are teachers
and six are support staff who rotate responsibilities between
two shifts.
Do
you have places for children with no parents?
We share the house
between youngsters and teenagers. Boys and girls do not
live together. Most boys between 6 and 18 have relatives
to live with. We place girls who have no relatives in flats.
How
do you arrange classes?
Preschoolers are taught
here by us or by teenagers who still live with us. First
to ninth graders attend Bangkok district schools. If they
finish with a good grade then they can go on to high school,
otherwise they opt for vocational schools. Some can go further
and finish undergraduate degrees from Rajaphat vocational
institutes.
Do
you have any activities for students?
Mainly career-oriented
activities such as handicrafts, drawing, and art, which
are taught by our staff members or outside volunteers.
How
can children contact you?
Children or their relatives
can come directly to us for help.
Do
they know about your life story?
They know because they
inquire about it. Staff members here talk to each other
quite often.
Do
you get assistance from the government or private organizations?
We have registered
Ban Kru Noi with the Department of Public Welfare. From
time to time we receive supplementary foods such as milk
and study aids like books. They do not provide any funds.
Some state officers help us out of their own pockets.
What
are the approaches to taking care of children who come from
various backgrounds?
First things first.
That is to open the heart and accept children for who they
are. Love, friendliness and understanding from teachers
and staff members are the most important factors. After
we learn to live together, we can get along and good study
will follow. We all need love.
What
is your recommendation or information for the web site creation
for the purpose of social awareness?
There are so many less
privileged people in Thailand who have limited resources
to sustain themselves. We can render a helping hand; most
of the time we just give them a chance or a head start so
they can help themselves. For what we are doing, we believe
that it takes a village to raise a child. How can we have
a strong society in the future if children still go to bed
with empty stomachs? It is our duty to help them when they
need it. We do not wait until we are ready to help because
in my opinion that time will never come.
Until
now, do you think the Ban Kru Noi mission has been fulfilled?
Our accomplishments
can be measured through our joy. Although not all children
reach the stage we have hoped for, we have helped them pass
the most critical points in their lives. Some cannot be
changed and continue to behave the way they always have.
Many change for the better. We want and we try to bring
them back as good people for the society.
If
the children who get to know Ban Kru Noi from the web site
want to get help from you, how should they start?
We always welcome them
but first we need to talk about the nature of their problems.
Not all children need to come and stay here. In many situations
we only fill the missing pieces of the puzzle. There are
a lot of children we are helping now in various ways who
need not actually reside here.
Of
all resources, which is the most critical?
Money is the most critical
matter. We need money for everything such as food and education.
We pay a total of 3,010 Baht each day just for school for
98 students. We also pay for their medicine and visits to
the doctor. This is why we accept all kinds of donations,
food, clothes, books and children's necessities. We give
money and stuff to children living in rural areas too.
Besides
Bangkok, where can people find the donation centers?
We do not have any
donation centers in other provinces. For some donations
we give to other foundations such as Kru Ting's Sithasini
Foundation for children with HIV and drug abuse. We have
donated various items to other schools such as Sinadsiam
in Rachaburi Province, Sriwara School in Turakam village,
and Huanamsai School.
Besides
English, do you teach other subjects?
English, art, music,
guitar, and computer are among the subjects taught by volunteers.
During school recess, we also provide activities to keep
children busy. Some of them have to stay overnight sometimes.
However, only boys stay here. Girls must stay at our other
locations.
What
are the living conditions here?
Generally speaking,
the children feel reasonably happy. Nevertheless, there
are aggressive and stubborn children. Behavior such as lying
and violence are foreseeable. Children who have been abandoned
or living with domestic violence or drug addicted parents
are very unfortunate. With our understanding, they will
adapt and be able to live with other people. Love and time
will change them.